Burnout Isn’t Just Being Tired – It’s Being Done.

How to Recognise Burnout in Midlife Professional Women (Before You Implode)

Picture this: You’re staring at your computer screen with the enthusiasm of a wet dishcloth. The emails keep pinging, your to-do list is breeding like rabbits, and someone’s asking what’s for dinner… again. You fantasise about running away — not to Bali or anywhere exotic — just to a quiet Premier Inn room with blackout curtains and no responsibilities.

Sound familiar?

Welcome to burnout, my friend. And no, you’re not lazy, ungrateful, or weak. You’re fried. And you’re not alone.

What Burnout Really Is (Spoiler: It’s Not Just Stress)

Burnout is chronic physical and emotional exhaustion, usually from prolonged stress, and often paired with cynicism, detachment, and the nagging suspicion that you're failing at everything. (You’re not — but burnout lies.)

It’s what happens when you keep giving, pushing, fixing, and doing… without enough rest, recognition, or actual recharging.

For many women in midlife — juggling careers, kids, ageing parents, partners, or lack thereof — burnout isn’t a maybe. It’s a frequent flyer.

How to Recognise Burnout in Midlife Women (Especially High Achievers)

Let’s not beat around the bush — burnout rarely announces itself with fanfare. It creeps in, subtle as a passive-aggressive post-it note. Here’s what to watch out for:

You’re permanently knackered. Even after sleep. Even after a weekend. You feel like you’re dragging your body through the day.
Your fuse is about *this* long. You snap at the dog, your boss, or the person rustling a crisp packet near you.
You feel numb or flat. You’re not even upset anymore. Just… meh. You’ve lost your sparkle.
You forget things. What day is it? Where are your keys? What did you walk into this room for? (Menopause doesn’t help either. Thanks for that, hormones.)
You start to dread everything. Meetings. Meals. Messages. Life feels like a series of obligations with no joy in sight.
Your body starts talking back. Aches. Tummy issues. Headaches. Insomnia. Your body is waving a big red flag.
You feel like a failure. You can’t keep up — and you think it’s your fault. (It’s not.)

Why Midlife Women Are Especially Prone

Because you’re the glue. The boss, the carer, the planner, the fixer, the one who remembers birthdays and where the plasters are. You’ve got experience, ambition, responsibilities — and almost no time to just be.

You may be climbing the career ladder while simultaneously managing hot flushes, hormone crashes, and people who still expect you to "just pop to Tesco" after a full day’s work.

Burnout thrives where expectations are sky-high and support is low. Welcome to modern womanhood.

So What Can You Do?

Rest isn’t optional. It’s essential. And not just sleep — mental rest, emotional rest, even sensory rest (put the phone down and sit in silence for a bit).
Name it. Admitting you’re burnt out isn’t weakness — it’s wisdom. Awareness is the first step to change.
Ask for help. You’re not meant to do this alone. Speak to a coach, a therapist, a friend. Delegate something. Say no. Let someone else hold the clipboard for once.
Reassess your work-life balance. If your job is draining the life out of you, it’s time to re-evaluate. A change doesn’t have to be drastic — but you deserve better than soul-sapping survival. Choose you. Even if it’s just for 15 minutes a day. A walk. A bath. A chapter of a book. A conversation that isn’t about logistics.

Final Thought

Burnout doesn’t mean you’re broken. It means you’ve been strong for too long without a break. If you’re nodding along to this blog with a lump in your throat — that’s your sign.

You deserve to feel vibrant, valued, and alive again.

And if you need help finding your way back to that version of you — I’m here. Book a free discovery call and let’s chat about what’s possible for you. Book HERE